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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce you to today's guests.
Yang Dong Geun!
Announcer Kim Bo Min!
Hello. Hello.
The host of "Open Concert", Announcer Lee Hyun Joo!
It's nice to meet you all.
- Park Sung Gwang! - Thank you.
- Alberto Mondi! - Hello.
Alberto is sitting next to me. In fact, I heard...
- he can't sit like this. - Right. Sitting cross-legged.
- Keep your legs straight. - I can't.
I heard you didn't want to come on the show because of that.
When I got invited, I worried about this sitting position the most.
- I see. - I can't sit like this.
All Italians can't sit like this?
- No, none can do. - It's really difficult.
- It's hard. - They have different culture.
- Sit comfortably. - The viewers will understand.
- It's okay. - I'm sorry.
- Keep your legs straight. - They'll understand you.
- Stretch your legs out. - You're just different from us.
- Dong Geun saw this and asked... - It's so comfortable.
if he could sit with his legs straight too,
so I said only foreigners are allowed to do it.
Your wife must be busy looking after three children.
- I have 2 sons and 1 daughter. - I see.
When he asked if his wife agreed to have three children,
he said no. Is it true?
Yes. Once she got in my car, I went straight no matter what.
(I never stop.)
"You want to get out? Let me think. Let's keep going."
- That's how I usually do. - Your wife must be worried.
- Doesn't Alberto have a child too? - Yes.
Alberto, how old is your child?
He's 21 months old.
Do you help your wife a lot?
I didn't think I should help my wife look after our baby.
- I told myself to do it with her. - He's right.
That was a great comment.
Does Kim Nam Il help you a lot look after your child?
Since his nickname was Vacuum cleaner,
I thought he'd clean the house well.
- That was his nickname. - Right.
But he rarely cleans the house.
He often plays with our kid instead. So I don't complain.
- That's a great help. - I appreciate that.
So there's nothing to complain about, right?
I thought I didn't have anything to complain about.
But one day, we walked about 3km...
after taking our car to a repair shop.
He asked if I have any complaints. I said I didn't have any,
but for over an hour, until we got home,
- I talked continuously. - About your complaints?
- You had a lot of complaints. - My husband couldn't...
sleep at all that night.
- He felt like a terrible person. - He was shocked.
What point shocked him the most?
- He nags a lot. - I see.
I've known him for 15 years.
- But I've never nagged at him. - Really?
You two are an ideal couple.
I accepted the differences between us.
If he takes his socks off inside out, I turn them back.
If he throws away trash anywhere, I put it in the trash can.
However, he never allows me to do the same things he does.
I would do a facial massage rather than arguing with him.
I actually do that often.
I try to do that as much as I can.
But when I can't see my baby for a few days because of work,
- only his Korean improves. - I see.
It feels like...
I have a small boss.
All he says sounds like an order.
- Order. - I see.
- A small baby. - He sounds cute.
"Dad, get up. Dad, play with me."
"Dad, sit down."
- Everything he says is an order. - I see.
Since we're talking about babies, Sung Gwang,
what kind of dad do you think you'll become?
Unlike the way I seem...
What kind of husband do you think I would be?
(Are you asking me?)
Are you asking me?
What's going on? Did you just propose to her?
I think I'll become a devoted family man.
- I think so too. - Me too.
Haven't you dated anyone before?
- All of a sudden... - She sounds like a prosecutor.
No, I haven't.
(We'll leave it to your imagination.)
- Do you have any worries? - Hyun Joo.
Well, I...
I live from day to day.
- Pardon? - I mean...
- You live from day to day? - Yes.
- Hyun Joo... - You know that Hyun Joo...
hosted "News 9", right? Hosting an evening news show for years...
- can be a heavy burden to bear. - Absolutely.
I mean, she can't be on the news.
(Oh, that was the reason.)
It's the same for everyone.
Imagine her saying on the news show,
"Next up is a story of myself."
- She lives from day to day. - Exactly.
Sung Gwang, you smile at Hyun Joo the way you never do...
at comediennes.
- Me? - You keep getting startled.
Do you like Hyun Joo?
Would that make any difference?
You never know.
(He was born to be a comedian.)
I wonder what kind of stories we have today.
Show us the keywords please.
Today's keywords are "The Fish That's Already Caught",
"What Do You Think of Me?", and "The Man Who Borrows Trouble".
A woman in her 30s sent this story.
Hello. I'm a housewife in my 30s, and I live in Daejeon.
I help my husband's work at his store from time to time.
"What time will you finish your work today?"
"Can you give me your number?"
"My goodness."
"Do you have a boyfriend?"
It's a bit embarrassing to say this by myself,
but I'm still so popular even though I'm married.
It's so annoying.
- Really? - However, there's a man...
who doesn't care about me unlike the other men.
He's my husband.
My husband is indifferent and shows no affection for me.
He doesn't even look at me.
Oh, boy.
"Honey, give me a kiss."
"No."
"Honey, I think..."
"we haven't done it for a while."
"How about tonight?"
(Even Alberto is surprised.)
"I'm tired."
(He sounds like a robot.)
It's not that we've been married for 10 or 20 years.
We've been married for only one year.
Bo Min, you know what the first year of marriage is like, right?
I'm sure Dong Geun knows too.
(He can relate to the story.)
"Before we got married, you acted as if you would do anything for me."
"Do you have no romantic feelings for me now? Is that the case?"
"Why did we get married if we were going to live like this?"
(He's annoyed.)
"We were dating back then. Now, we're family."
"You don't do things like that with your family."
"Do you hate living with me?"
"Bring me divorce papers anytime."
"I'll sign it right away."
(Bring me divorce papers if you hate to live with me.)
My gosh. Is this why they say...
that men don't feed the fish they already caught?
Please help me.
That's the end of the story.
Bo Min, how long have you been married?
I've been married for 11 years.
How is your marriage now? Is it like hers?
(How is Bo Min and Nam Il's marriage?)
It depends.
When he doesn't have soccer games ahead of him...
When you're in a bad financial situation?
Exactly.
(You should cheer up when times like that.)
I've been married for 12 years. When I think about the first year,
- it was a dangerous time. - Why?
I thought I could die.
- We went out to eat and have fun... - It's nice.
without getting enough sleep.
- We kept going on like that. - Right.
- So I thought that I could... - Exactly.
Dong Geun, how was the first year of your marriage?
We didn't have time to enjoy our honeymoon phase...
because we had a baby before we got married.
That's why I could understand him...
- when I hear the story. - You understand her husband?
We went through a similar situation.
- You had a baby, so... - It's understandable.
Now, we're going to meet our guest from Daejeon.
Please come out.
(Who is worried about her indifferent husband?)
(She's cute.)
(Lee Min Na)
Most of the wives we met complained...
that their husbands are too controlling...
or tell them not to do a lot of things.
Does your husband really not care what you do?
He really doesn't care what I do.
I've been married for only one year.
I think it's too soon for our passion to fizzle out.
- How indifferent is your husband? - He's indifferent.
My husband is running a makgeolli bar.
When I work alone at the bar,
I'm asked out by men quite often.
Do they ask for your number?
Some of them wait until the closing time...
- at their tables. - Right.
- Right. - Yes.
- They really like her. - Right.
They ask me,
- "When will you finish work?" - My goodness.
Then I try to make them give up.
I politely tell them that I'm married...
to reject them.
- When I tell my husband about it, - How does he react?
(Exclaiming)
"Really? So did you give him your number?"
He reacts like this.
- As if it happened to a stranger? - Yes.
What does he say when you say you didn't give your number?
I said,
"Of course, I didn't give him my number. I said I'm married."
He said, "Why? You should've given him your number."
He also said,
"Gosh. It never happens to me even though I flirt with women."
- How could he say such a thing? - He was disappointed.
- He must be joking around. - Could that be the case?
Since Hyun Joo, Sung Gwang, and I are still single,
we kind of feel like...
you're bragging about it.
I feel that way a little.
You're not bragging about it, right?
No. I'm not...
- bragging about it. - What never happens to me...
happens to a married woman so often.
- You're not bragging, right? - No.
Every woman wants to be loved...
- by her husband as a woman. - That's right.
In fact, I had a baby before getting married.
- You had a baby first. - Yes.
You're in a similar situation to Dong Geun's.
So we've been married for a year,
but we have a seven-month-old baby.
(She has a 7-month-old baby.)
I think maybe I'm not attractive to him anymore...
because I had a baby.
If it's because of your baby... Does he not make...
any physical contact?
I tried to recover our relationship.
But whenever I talk about things like this,
he covers his body with the blanket and turns his back to me.
- Oh, no. - He puts up a wall around him.
I suggested we should enhance our intimacy.
When I said that,
he said he didn't want to because I said such a thing.
How was your husband when you were dating him?
He was completely different when we were dating.
I was worked at my cousin's store.
I worked in the evening.
My husband went to work in the morning, finished his work,
and came to my workplace after work.
- He helped me until my shift ended. - That's so sweet.
He slept only for a couple of hours or didn't sleep at all.
What about physical contact? Now, he doesn't make any physical contact.
Back then, he was really aggressive.
(He knew what to do.)
- When we kissed, - How did he do that?
he kissed me first like a tough guy.
(Her face looks lively.)
He was like that.
She sounded so happy while talking about the old days.
- She seems so happy. - She sounded excited.
- Her eyes are sparkling. - She must be missing those days.
(Her eyes are teary.)
Let's meet her husband.
What do you call him?
I call him Kkokko when we're very happy together.
- Kkokko? - Yes.
- Where are you? Hello. - Kkokko.
Hello.
(Who is the indifferent husband?)
He looks like a CEO.
- He looks... - It's nice to meet you all.
- He looks nice. - He's handsome.
He looks so vigorous.
- I like his hairstyle. - He's handsome.
- He looks great. - You heard your wife's worry.
Do you understand her?
No, I don't think it's a worry.
- Everyone says the same thing. - It's true that I'm inattentive.
But I don't understand why she's stressed out because of it.
Are you saying that you admit that you're indifferent towards her?
I admit it. I do admit it,
but why...
am I like that?
(Is he counterattacking her?)
- It's meaningful. - Do you not know the reason?
Listen to me.
He must have his own reasons.
However,
what can be confusing is...
- your inconsistency. It's bad. - That's right.
You were so devoted to her before getting married,
but you changed completely. She must be confused.
Well, back then... I sleep a lot.
I can sleep two days in a row.
I didn't even get enough sleep to seduce her back then.
I'm sure all men do the same.
They make a lot of efforts before they get married.
But once they get married, they become inattentive.
- Sorry? - I believe...
- all men are the same. - I'm not like you.
Is it some kind of revenge?
Is it that you want to compensate because she...
played hard to get before you married her?
Is that part of the reason?
- No, it's not like that. - I see.
She hurt my pride.
- Before you got married? - Yes.
I shouldn't have been so devoted.
- What do you mean? - I was too nice from the start.
You should be cold at first and become nicer later on.
But I was too nice in the beginning...
and became less and less nice.
I changed too fast.
So what you're saying right now is...
even if guys hit on your wife at your bar,
- you don't feel jealous. - Never. I never feel jealous.
She's mine anyway.
Even if a guy hits on her, she won't leave me.
- Goodness. - Hold on.
Why didn't you say that to her?
"Even if guys hit on you, you're mine."
I just didn't want to say it.
But then she'd never know.
Then let's say a female customer says,
"I like you. Can you give me your phone number?"
- What would you say? - I'd give her my phone number.
- Why? - Why?
- I'd give her my phone number. - Why?
- It's not because... - Oh, my goodness.
I want to date her.
It's to raise our sales.
- I mean... - What if she really likes you?
(What if she really likes you?)
I'll never like another woman.
(What makes him so confident?)
When your wife tried to approach you,
you said, "This is why I don't want to do anything with you,"
according to your wife.
Didn't you think that it might hurt her?
It might be selfish of me,
but when I go home after work,
- it's 3 or 4am. - He must be tired.
I'm so tired. I just want to take a shower and go to bed.
That's all I can think about.
If she tries to touch me after I take a shower,
it annoys me.
I just want to sleep.
I understand that you're tired.
- But your words can hurt your wife. - Right.
Don't you think you should try not to...
be so cold to her?
- You could try to be indirect. - I told her to do it later,
but if she can't wait just that long, I think she's impatient.
But it's getting way too long.
Did your husband really tell you...
to bring divorce papers if you wanted?
Yes. Whenever we argue, he says at the end,
"I can get a divorce anytime, so just bring the papers."
- It's become a habit now. - Gosh.
- He says it all the time. - I see.
Then I tell him,
"I don't want my son to be raised without one of his parents."
- Then... - What does he say?
"Get married to another man then."
- Hold on. - "Get married again."
"The kid is still young. He won't know..."
"if your new husband is his biological dad."
He says stuff like that.
Did he say anything else that hurt you?
Yes, there's more.
"I don't like our son because I don't like you."
"I don't even want to look at him."
He swears too.
It's not that he swears at me in the worst way like this.
Oh, you mean, he doesn't.
I was surprised.
(Relieved)
He doesn't, but he becomes pretty aggressive.
"Gosh, stop chirping, it's annoying."
"You have a terrible personality."
- He humiliates me like that. - Why would he do that?
Why did you have to say stuff about your son?
There's something my wife said before our son was born.
"Even after our son is born, you'll always be my priority."
But as soon as the baby was born,
she stopped caring about me.
From making meals to ironing my clothes...
Why did she have to lie to me?
- Seriously? - All this started...
because your wife said you'd be her priority?
There are many other things too.
Have you ever lied to your wife?
- To my wife? - Yes.
- Like "I'll do this and this." - "I'll treat you like a queen."
I never said things like that.
Did he ever say things like that?
- Did he make any promises? - When we were dating,
he said, "I'll do the dishes, cleaning, and laundry."
- And? - And?
Once we got married, I had to do everything.
- You didn't keep your promise. - What do you think about this?
- Explain. - You didn't keep your promise.
What are you talking about? My hearing is bad.
I think I'll have to hit you.
(You know who I am, right?)
She can fix your ears.
(That serves him right.)
Why didn't you keep your promise?
Does he never help you with the childcare?
Until two months ago, he had been a truck driver.
- It must have been hard. - So...
I knew he was tired.
We couldn't park the truck in front of our house,
so even in the last month of my pregnancy,
I drove myself to pick him up.
I boiled eggs for him and cooled them down beforehand.
I made hot tea for him in the winter.
Even after quitting that job,
he doesn't help you with the childcare at all?
He spends about 5 to 10 minutes.
- What does he do? - He just...
(Playing)
- That's it? - He plays with the baby?
- And he stops after 10 minutes? - That's it?
If you don't teach men,
they don't know how to change diapers or wash the baby.
He knows how to change diapers.
But he thinks it's too dirty when our son poops.
- But it's about his own son. - Still.
(Upset)
Are you doing this...
because she looked down on you and gave you a hard time?
Now that you're married, do you want to do whatever you want?
Is it a part of the reason?
When I worked as a truck driver,
I got paid about 3,000 dollars a month.
It's said about 25 million people...
get paid less than 2,000 dollars a month.
It means I was getting paid pretty well.
But she nagged me that I got paid too little...
and didn't give her enough money.
Even though you worked hard?
- I even slept in the truck. - It's hard work.
Is that when everything started...
- to go wrong? - Did it hurt you?
- Since then, - He's been brooding over it?
we've been fighting a lot.
She told me I got paid too little, stayed away too often,
and not helped with the kid.
Our home felt like a prison.
Once, I even ran away from home.
You ran away.
I think they have different opinions about the situation.
We have each of their friends here today.
You've been listening to their stories so far.
Do you understand your friend?
She's not just depressed anymore.
She has so much anger pent up inside.
She used to run a successful landscaping business.
She used to be so confident.
There was a reason...
why my friend decided to marry someone who's younger than her.
She didn't care if he wasn't competent.
He was so nice to her, so she chose love.
But he now complains she's too clingy,
and it makes her lose her confidence.
She says she'll stay with him for her kid's sake,
but I wouldn't live this way if I were her.
You said something about his age.
- He's 3 years younger than me. - He's 3 years younger?
I couldn't tell just by looking at his appearance.
The husband's friend is here too.
I'm on my friend's side.
- You are? - You talk to him more.
Can you be more specific?
When he was a truck driver,
she often nagged him...
about money problems.
They're running a bar together.
Even when other employees are around,
when my friend suggests something,
she often ignores it.
- In front of others? - Yes.
My wife used to work...
at her sister's bar.
So she knows more than I do.
I'm the owner of the place,
but she says she's the practical boss...
because I don't know much about the business.
It really ticked me off when I heard it.
Men have their pride.
Of course, women do too.
But usually, men care about pride more than women.
The thing is, he never gave me living expenses.
(What?)
(A new truth is revealed.)
He earned 3,000 dollars, and it all went to him.
- Why? - He never gave me any money.
- That's why I said that. - Hold on.
- How much did he give you? - He gave me a credit card.
He told me to use the card.
But I knew he had no money.
- You couldn't spend much. - I became too careful...
to spend any money.
I haven't spent any money for myself after I got married.
It's always for my husband and our son.
Why did you never mention it?
- You left it out. - Then...
- Where did all the money go? - Where did it all go?
Even if I give the money to my wife,
- It all goes back to him. - I have to pay back my debts.
That's where all the money goes.
- You have debts? - Yes.
- Your personal debts? - Credit card bills?
I had debts before I got married,
but I kept it from her.
(This is not okay.)
I kept it from her...
because I thought she wouldn't marry me otherwise.
Hold on.
(Shocked)
- Hold on. - Hold on.
Hold on.
How much debt did you have?
Let's hear from his friend about this.
It was wrong of him.
- You have to look into it. - He shouldn't have deceived her.
You found out later on.
You could argue over it for a while,
but you shouldn't keep talking about it forever.
We have to raise our son and support ourselves.
I want to do everything...
to make our business successful.
That's why I want to teach him what I know.
It's not like I look down on him.
But the way she talks to me is like she's looking down on me.
- You don't like the way she talks? - No.
Since it's my first time, I could be bad at it.
- Right. - She goes, "What are you doing?"
"Why aren't you doing it?"
She talks down to me like that.
- Then how... - I am her husband and the owner.
(But she treats him like a part-time employee.)
She treats me like a part-time employee.
You are the husband and the owner.
- How should she treat you? - How should she talk to you?
Just like when we were dating,
I want her to say, "Why isn't this done yet, honey?"
(She can't believe it.)
"Please do this."
But you don't talk nicely like that either.
She has to talk nice to me for me to talk nice to her.
You are doing this because she did it to you first?
- Yes. - But if that's the case,
she talked to you nicely first.
She said, "Kiss me, honey."
I already didn't like her by then. How could I talk nicely to her?
I don't even like holding her hands.
If your wife changes the way she talks...
and starts talking sweetly,
your relationship will improve. Right?
My hateful feeling towards her keeps growing into a wall...
just like how your level goes up when you play a game.
- But... - To take down the wall...
you can start over though.
- But... - It will take time.
It will take time.
But living together without taking that wall down is ridiculous.
- You both need to put effort. - Right.
Let me ask you one thing...
before we move on.
Do you still love your wife?
(Do you love your wife?)
Yes.
(He sounds very dull.)
You are saying it because you are forced.
Aside from the fact that you are...
sick of getting nagged by her,
you still love her, don't you?
(You still love your wife, don't you?)
I guess I do.
(He doesn't sound sincere.)
I asked you the question for this reason.
When we hear you talk, it sounds like you want a divorce.
(It sounds like he wants a divorce.)
That's how you sound.
But divorce is not really what you want, is it?
It's not.
You talk so bluntly that people might misunderstand you.
I will ask his wife too.
Do you still love your husband a lot?
(Do you love your husband?)
Because he keeps pushing me away,
my heart is gradually getting shut.
Actually, I don't know if I love him.
- You don't know. - You don't know if it's love.
I think you two have been turning your backs against...
each other for too long. You never talk.
So you don't know how each other feels.
So we want to give you time to talk to each other.
I have nothing to say to her.
But you do. A while ago, you said you love her.
Tell her that.
What will you do if you keep that inside you?
They say you should say "I love you" sparingly.
That's not something to say sparingly.
- I know. - Why would you do that?
Why don't you start with this?
Let's start with the husband.
Of all the things you've heard from your wife, what was most hurtful?
"Your measly income".
She hurt your pride by saying that you don't earn enough.
She said earning 2,700 to 3,000 dollars a month...
wasn't enough to sustain our household...
and questioned why I still insisted on being a truck driver.
That really stressed me out.
You can have a conversation about this.
- Tell her how hard it's been. - Tell her it's been really tough.
Why don't you tell her that first?
Tell her that her words really hurt your feelings that time.
Why don't you start first, Koko?
- "Koko". - What did you use to call her?
- My baby. - "My baby".
- "My baby". - My baby and Koko.
All right. Go.
Please call her.
(Shall we tear down the wall in your heart now?)
Why did you do that?
- Come on. - Say "My baby".
(Talk nicely!)
Come on. I will be the director.
Look into your eyes.
(They look at each other.)
Why did you do that, baby?
Tell her that really hurt your feelings.
- You have to tell her. - Be more detailed.
- Tell her how it made you feel. - When you said that...
at the rest stop,
I cried a lot inside.
As a father of a child...
(He gets emotional.)
I am sorry.
- It's all right. - Take your time.
- Take your time. - It's all right.
- We understand you. - You need to let it out.
As a father,
I have to provide for my family.
That's why I have been earning money.
But whenever I heard such a thing,
I lied, saying I was going to sleep at the rest stop.
I lied and cried.
Only if you didn't say such a thing,
things wouldn't have gotten this bad between us.
(It must've been really hard for him.)
(We can feel his innermost feelings.)
My goodness.
(She's crying too.)
Can she say what she wants to say to you?
- She is... - She's crying.
- Now, you can... - It's her first time to hear it.
- Right. It's the first time. - She must feel sad.
Regardless of who is at fault,
you have to reveal your feelings...
- to start a real conversation. - Right.
It must've taken a lot of courage for a man...
to talk about what hurt his ego.
Right.
When I got pregnant,
I needed to raise a family.
But it wasn't working out the way I imagined,
so I got upset and said such a thing.
I didn't know it hurt your pride that much.
I am really sorry.
(I am sorry.)
She's sorry.
You have to accept her apology. She says she's sorry.
(Someone had to just reach out their hand first.)
She's sorry.
(Why was it that hard?)
Among all the things you have heard from your husband,
what was the toughest to take in?
Tell him.
Honey, actually,
the recent days have been the toughest for me.
Whenever we fought, you mentioned divorce.
It felt like you didn't want to take responsibility for the child.
The way you disregarded me...
really hurt me.
For us to survive,
I have to tell you the harsh reality.
And you have to accept it. That's what I thought.
Whenever I tried to stop you, you cursed at me.
You have to know this.
She said it herself. She's got a strong ego.
Coming out here means her friends and her colleagues...
will know about everything.
She still came out here to talk about what hurt her...
and to say sorry to you.
This means she really loves you.
(She really loves her husband.)
Because she truly loves you, she brought the matter here...
so that you can have a fresh start.
When we were dating,
she always threatened to leave me.
I got so tired, so I said we should break up.
But she stopped me then.
We tried to make it work, but it didn't work.
Even if we try again, it won't work again.
- No. No. - We can't even talk.
Things will change.
That's why she wrote to us.
- In front of many people... - She promised me that before.
But things are different now. So give her another chance.
Honestly, I understand him.
In such a short time,
he got debts...
and a child in a short time.
He made a shift from driving a truck to running a business.
It must've been really difficult for him.
But stop acting cool.
You don't need to beat her.
It's not important to keep your ego.
You can lose to her.
Be the lovely man you were in the beginning.
Buy her flowers. Love her.
Wait for her. That's more important.
I think he should try to improve the situation.
That's why I will vote that it's a worry.
It's a worry.
When my child said,
"I'm so happy that you are my mom and dad,"
we cried.
It gave meaning to all the years we spent...
fighting and putting up with each other.
You don't know that now.
You think you matter the most.
You think you are going to be far better off without each other.
But it's not like that at all.
I've been married for seven years now.
One time, my wife...
brought me the divorce papers.
That was even before she gave birth to our child.
My wife also said a lot of things that hurt my ego,
so I thought...
it would never get any better.
I had that thought for a very long time.
But one day, it just dawned on me.
That was...
just how she was.
The moment I accepted that,
I said to myself, "Why didn't I do this earlier when it's this easy?"
You just accept it.
- Right. - That's marriage.
That happened only a few days ago.
Are you telling him to wait six more years?
You have to think about it together...
and face the problems together.
Please say something to him before we end it.
Tell him what you really want.
I came out here because I don't want to give up on us.
And I don't want to give up because I love you that much.
Right.
Please press the buttons.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 3, 2, 1.
Stop.
Press it only once.
They are de-stressing here.
It's time for you to say something.
Tell her your honest feelings.
I want you to change the way you talk.
I need to get a lot of sleep.
So I want you to stop nagging to me about my sleep.
(He asks her to stop nagging.)
And we should gradually tear down the wall.
But it will take time until it happens.
I want you to be patient.
I hope...
you will put your focus on our son and raise him well.
It seems like you are confusing the pressure from marriage...
with the pressure from your wife.
Everyone wants to sleep a lot, but most people can't.
To raise your child,
you have to give up what you like and do what you don't like.
I hope you will know what marriage entails.
As a person, I think you should...
admit to your faults.
This is nothing to do with your ego.
You got debts before you got married.
Right? You should be sorry to your wife.
Instead of apologizing to her,
you just kept giving her excuses.
Why does it hurt your ego to learn something you don't know?
If someone teaches you something in a nice way, you have to pay.
You have to get a tutor.
You're learning it for free.
So how can you do that? I'll stop here.
- I have to eat. - Yes. It's past her mealtime.
Yes. "The Fish That's Already Caught".
Let's see how many votes she got. My hands are shaking.
Please show the result.
(The result)
A lot of people voted.
- 106? - I think it will be quite high.
166?
- 146? - 156.
(She got 156 votes.)
"The Man Who Borrows Trouble".
Hello. I am a man in his 20s from Gangwon Province.
There's a famous guy in our town.
"Hey, please buy some clothes and shoes."
"They've got holes everywhere."
"I can't afford them."
Surprisingly, this dirty and pathetic guy...
is an entrepreneur who owns a hair salon, a cafe,
and a clothing retail shop.
Is he just a penny pincher? No. He really doesn't have money.
"Buddy, can you lend me some money?"
"Of course, I can. How much do you need?"
"Friend, can you stand surety for me?"
"Hey! Why would you even worry about it?"
"Of course, I would do it for you."
No matter how much he earns, he never earns any money.
He doesn't even have money to pay his employees.
What frustrates me is that I am his staff too.
Even when the situation is this bad, he goes, "Hey."
"I have a great business idea."
"Listen."
He keeps thinking about starting another business.
Please stop my pushover friend.
(His friend is asking us to help him.)
Please come on out.
Who is worried about his friend who always gives?
(Kim Joo Chan)
(Welcome!)
What is your relationship to him? You said you are his employee.
We used to go to the same high school.
We work together right now.
Like I said earlier, he runs a hair salon, a juice store,
an online shopping mall, and a clothing shop.
He runs four businesses.
He runs four businesses, but none of it is working properly.
Is his business going badly?
He can't even pay his employees on time.
And yet he's thinking about starting a new business.
- My goodness. - I've known him...
for a long time, so I know a few of his failures.
His cocktail bar and guesthouse had to close down.
Does he not work? What's going on?
He works harder than anyone else.
He goes to the salon in the morning.
Lunchtime is the peak hour for the cafe.
So he goes there and cleans.
After helping out a little, he moves onto the shopping mall.
He sends out parcels until at night.
He goes home after midnight.
He works even on weekends.
If he works that hard, shouldn't he be successful?
- Right. - Right.
- He works so hard. - Are they still not successful?
Every penny he earns goes to someone else.
- What? It's not the business. - So he is successful.
Wait. Does he give all his money to other people?
- To whom? - He lends it to everyone.
He's not doing business. He's doing charity work.
I'm in charge of the clothing shop.
When I work, customers come,
and some of them are his friends. He gives them clothes for free.
- Clothes? - Yes.
He should sell them.
Is it not just the first time?
Is it every time?
When the friend says it's lovely, he just gives it away.
"This is pretty." "You take it."
Does he give it away for free if the customer is his friend?
- Yes. - They would come too often.
- I know. - How can I be his friend?
Does the fact that he can afford to give that much...
mean his business is quite successful?
The business is not going well, and he still gives away things.
He pays back his friend's debt too.
(He pays back his friend's debt too.)
- Debt? - Why?
- He even stood surety once. - Goodness.
But he's not your brother.
- Why are you so eager to help him? - You seem really frustrated.
He is like a brother to me. I like his intention...
and his thoughts that I want to help him out.
So I work for him for free.
- Right now? - What?
- How can you do that? - We should be worried about you.
- You should get paid. - That doesn't make sense.
- What's wrong with you? - Gosh.
- Do you get paid with clothes? - What's going on?
I don't get paid regularly.
But on good months, I take a lot of money.
How much did you take so far?
One time, I worked hard for a week,
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but the net gain was only five dollars.
- Five dollars? - No way.
(That's 2 cups of Americano worth 2 dollars and 50 cents.)
How do you afford your living then?
On weekends, I work at an internet cafe,
- and I wait tables at a bar. - To make money.
Then did you come here today...
to tell him officially that you want to quit?
Honestly, I did think about that.
But right now, he lives like a total pushover.
- You are frustrated. - I want him to stop being used...
and to get cursed at by saying no.
- Let's meet his pushover friend. - Who is he?
Hello.
He looks like a naive man.
- He looks tired. - He looks too naive.
- He looks very naive. - He looks tired too.
Your friend here said you are like a pushover.
Are you okay with that?
No. I am not a pushover.
I believe when I help people now,
they will one day pay me back.
But you don't know when that would be.
Has anyone returned you the money?
- No. - You helped them.
(This is a serious worry.)
- You've never been paid back. - Why do you keep diversifying?
Why don't you do one thing well?
I want to provide my staff a lot of benefits.
That's why I wanted to run multiple businesses.
It's expensive if they go to other places to buy clothes.
They can buy our clothes at cheaper price.
- Is it for your staff's welfare? - He's a good boss.
Right.
Instead of caring about their welfare,
- why don't you pay them on time? - Yes.
But it's not like I don't pay them.
I just pay them late.
But they all still manage to eat.
- What? - Many people can't eat.
All companies offer benefits to their employees.
But you still have to make money first.
- Right. - I do make money.
I make a lot of money.
- He said you earned 5 dollars. - You earned 5 dollars.
That's only the clothing shop.
- How about the other shops? - I earn a lot from the others.
But I lent people money,
paid back other people's debts, and stood surety too.
That's where most of my money goes.
What happened to standing surety for a friend?
- Has there been no problem? - I have only...
a little bit left to pay.
Are you paying back the debts because things went wrong?
I stood surety for him, so I'm paying back his debts.
Right. You stood surety for him.
But why are you paying back his debt?
He doesn't have money.
And I can still afford to eat.
Also, I am kind-hearted. Wouldn't he pay me back one day?
You don't ask him to pay you back, do you?
- I don't. - I'm sure he didn't.
There must've been a time when you refused to lend money...
because you couldn't afford to.
I lent money to almost all of my friends who asked me.
(He lends money as long as that person is his friend.)
Have you never refused?
I am not good at refusing.
It's frustrating.
(This is a worry.)
- Do you have a lot of money? - Do you have a lot of money?
No. I don't have money. It's tough.
At first, I was financially stable.
That's when I helped my friends a lot.
About a year ago, I got scammed.
- My goodness. - That's why things got tough.
Do you get scammed well too?
I don't know if it's a scam. I just trust my friends well.
Does your friends go out of reach after borrowing money?
They barely talk to me.
But I contact them first.
I ask them to go for dinner or what they are up to.
You must've given away a very large sum of money...
- to your friends so far then. - I know.
I think it's about a little over 100,000 dollars.
(About 100,000 dollars?)
(Their jaws drop.)
People owe me more than 100,000 dollars.
I have the debt of... I've paid back quite a lot.
- He has more to pay. - Now,
I have 40,000 to 50,000 dollars left to pay back.
- That's how much debt you have. - Yes.
That's how much somebody else's debt you have?
Yes.
Why do you smile as if it doesn't matter?
- What? - You talk as if it doesn't matter.
My friends will pay me back later.
How are you so confident? There is no memorandum.
They need to earn money.
I can't lend money to someone and refuse another.
Do you think that's only fair?
If a friend is struggling,
you shouldn't go, "I won't lend him money..."
"because people never pay me back."
- How do you... - What if he's really struggling.
How do you determine if your friend really is struggling?
Since I can't determine it,
- I lend money to everyone. - You lend money to everyone.
My goodness.
(It's impossible to reason with him.)
How much money do you spend on yourself...
in a month?
These days, I only spend about 200 to 300 dollars on myself.
You spend 200 to 300 dollars on yourself?
For meals, I have gimbap.
- Why? - Why do you do that?
You can't eat what you want because you lent money.
I miss meal time because I am too busy.
How much money do you spend for others in a month?
- Give us a rough estimate. - I spend more than 2,000 dollars.
(Is this for real?)
- This makes no sense. - 10 times more.
- That doesn't include the debt. - I see.
- That doesn't include the debt? - That doesn't include the debt?
- What? - That doesn't include the debt?
How much debt do you accumulate in a month?
About 5,000 to 6,000 dollars.
(He accumulates 5,000 to 6,000 dollars as debt.)
(It's 30 times bigger than his own allowance.)
There must be a reason why...
- you do this. - That's right.
I learned from my parents.
They helped others very well.
They told me not to be inconvenient to others.
My dad stood surety many times.
However, my dad succeeded.
He paid back his debt and succeeded.
That's why I think good men succeed.
(His idea of "Good" is very different.)
(Stop beating so fast, my heart.)
Do you borrow money from someone...
to pay back the debt?
I borrowed money from my mom once or twice.
I paid off a friend's debt.
Did you pay back your mom?
If I combine the money I borrowed from my sister...
I have 10,000 to 20,000 dollars left to pay back.
What did your parents say...
when you asked them for money to pay off a friend's debt?
I didn't tell them the truth.
I told them I wanted to open a new business.
You shouldn't do that.
Your parents will find out now.
- They will watch this episode. - They might kill me.
- What? - They might kill me.
When someone visits or calls...
to borrow money from him,
- can't you tell him... - Can't you stop him?
- not to do that? - I think you should stop him.
I did that a lot in the beginning.
When he answers the phone, he goes...
"What? Really?"
"It must be hard. Are you okay?"
He says that.
Because he is like that,
some people approach him with a hidden agenda.
- They figure him out right away. - Can you give us an example?
His business partner said that...
they should buy an air conditioner since the office is too hot.
He agreed to it and bought it.
Then his business partner said it cost 1,000 dollars.
However, it turned out the 1,000-dollar air conditioner...
came from his home.
- It came from his home. - He took 1,000 dollars.
Even when he figured it out, he didn't say much.
(It was a lie.)
We had to buy an air conditioner anyway.
I figured that he lied...
because he needed the money.
You only thought about it to yourself?
You didn't even ask, "Isn't this from your home?"
No, I didn't. I didn't see the need.
We had to buy it anyway.
This is frustrating. Are there more examples?
He ran a cocktail bar with a business partner...
before it went under business...
leaving a debt of 70,000 to 80,000 dollars.
When the business partner complained about it,
he decided to take it on alone.
- Why do you continue... - Seriously.
to let people use you?
I didn't manage the finances.
The business flourished,
- but the money was embezzled... - Was it embezzled?
behind my back.
When you hear about that, doesn't it make you angry?
I should have managed the finances.
Do you blame yourself?
Yes, I should have managed the finances.
How does your typical day go?
At 8am, I wake up. At 9am, I either go to the hair salon...
or the juice shop.
At 5pm, I go to the shopping mall.
- I do customer service work, - He must make a lot of money.
take pictures, choose clothes,
and organize the items. When I am done, it's 12am.
I used to work until 3am.
You worked very hard to earn all that money.
If you just lend it to your friends,
don't you feel empty?
I do feel empty,
but I know they will pay me back someday.
I mean...
(It's impossible to reason with him.)
He is optimistic.
(No matter the situation,)
(he stays calm.)
(I have enough money for food.)
How is your health?
To be honest, I lost about 10kg.
- One time, - You are under a lot of stress.
I was walking home after work.
I got a blister on my face.
Then it covered my entire head.
It was shingles.
I heard it's dangerous if it reaches the brain.
The doctor told me that...
getting shingles one more time...
can increase my chance of getting cancer.
She told me to work less.
Back then,
I really thought about quitting.
You work hard enough to get shingles,
but you have no money to give your employees.
Doesn't it make you dispirited?
Your friends won't pay back the money they borrowed.
Don't you feel like you lived your life wrong?
I cried a lot at home.
"Where is all the money I earned?"
I had that thought.
- You are under a lot of stress. - Yes.
I always smile...
around my acquaintances.
(He always smiles around his acquaintances.)
- My goodness. - You know,
you go out of your way to lend money...
despite having those thoughts.
Do you feel like you won't have any friends left...
if you don't lend money?
What is your reason?
That's not the case. I care a lot about honor.
- "Honor"? - It's more important than money.
I want my friends to say,
- "I succeeded because of you." - "I am a good man."
"Thank you."
- I think he wants recognition. - I know.
- It seems that way. - That's right.
No one has paid you back yet.
It tells me you aren't getting recognition.
- That's right. - I know I will succeed,
so I am not worried about that.
I am creative and full of ideas.
- Who told you that? - What?
Who told you that?
His friends who borrowed money told him that.
I am sure they did.
(He is really angry.)
I was like him in the past, so I understand him.
It's a good man syndrome.
- A good man syndrome. - A good man syndrome.
- I was like him in the past. - Really?
It wasn't just about lending money.
I couldn't say no or disagree with others.
I couldn't turn down a request.
In the end, it becomes hard on yourself.
Hello invites friends and acquaintances to the show.
When the production crew called,
no one readily agreed to come.
They probably borrowed money from him.
They should have come...
to talk about how he helped them.
Everyone is busy.
Everyone is busy earning money.
"Isn't this too much? I lent money to so many people."
"Why did no one come?" Don't you have these thoughts?
He came.
(Peek-a-boo)
He paid back the money.
- Did he pay back the money? - That must be why he is here.
He paid back that's why he's here.
- He paid back the money! - That's a rare occurrence.
(They give him a round of applause.)
- Are you crying? - Thank you.
Don't cry.
What's your relationship to him?
I am a close friend who has known him for 10 years.
How much money did you borrow and pay back?
I hit a rough patch a few years ago.
I called him to talk about what happened. But he said,
"Are you struggling these days? I have..."
about 4,000 dollars in cash. Give me your account number."
He transferred the money that day.
I paid back the money over the course of a year.
He continued to call me.
However, he didn't call to ask me to pay back the money.
He asked, "Did you eat?" "Are you okay?"
"Let me buy you a drink." That kind of talk.
- I felt... - You felt thankful.
(It's my honor.)
I felt thankful, but very uncomfortable.
You felt very uncomfortable.
Had he told me to pay back the money...
- That would have been better. - Yes.
- That would have put me at ease. - That's right.
I ignored his calls in the end...
because I felt pressure.
- I decided... - You decided to pay back the money.
I decided to answer his calls after I pay back the money.
It's a cunning technique.
It's nice.
Do you make these calls...
to other friends too?
Yes.
They were too uncomfortable to visit the show.
(There was a reason why no one visited the show.)
- Do you have a girlfriend? - Yes, I do.
- Does she know about this? - Doesn't she try to stop you?
She doesn't know everything.
She knows the gist of it, so she is very worried.
Doesn't your girlfriend talk to you about it?
- I bet she nags a lot. - I bet she does.
We fight often because of that.
She keeps me from seeing my friends.
- She has the right idea. - That's right.
I would have done the same.
- You lend money to everyone. - Yes.
He just goes, "Yes."
Do you intend to marry your girlfriend?
- Of course. - I see.
In that case, you should enter into a legal bond...
and let your girlfriend...
- manage the finances. - That's a good idea.
Even if your friends and acquaintances ask for money,
you can say, "I will have to talk to my wife."
- It's a good method. - That's right.
I will do that when I marry her.
- Okay. - You should marry her soon.
Is there anything you want to ask of him?
So far, I wanted him...
to think about his own life...
and reach financial security.
I've also been working busily all week...
while suffering criticism from my family.
If the situation continues on,
I will reach my breaking point.
Unless he changes, I will have to find a different job.
- It's a declaration of war. - He is determined.
You may be satisfied with your life...
because you help others,
but your employees and family members are suffering...
because of you.
- I am sorry. - You do...
- He admits his fault so readily. - Seriously.
- What should we do? - He is flustered.
You do what you do to make yourself feel good.
- Then you pat yourself on the back. - Seriously.
- You are really selfish. - Your mom lent you that money...
because you are her son.
However, you used it to pat yourself on the back.
Don't you think it's incredibly selfish?
I know I am. I feel bad about it.
If I had more money,
no one would have complained.
I may not be able to pay my employees every month,
but I give my employees a lot of benefits.
- Give us an example. - What kind of benefits?
I buy a lot of food for them...
and go to good places with them.
- Give them money. - Give them their pay.
It's not easy to meet a boss like me.
It's not easy to meet an employee like him.
Your employees need that money to live...
- for a month. - You don't pay them,
but you lend money. Just ask him to lend you money.
(Laughing)
Ask him you lend you money.
- Sung Gwang! - That's a good idea.
- That's it. - That solves the problem.
- Borrow the monthly salary. - Ask him to lend you money.
What do you want to say to your boss one last time?
Listen to what your employee has to say.
I began working to realize my dream.
Please consider your surroundings...
and stop trying to live as a good man.
I hope you would be more realistic.
- Alberto. - Alberto.
I am sure you have your own morals and ethics.
You are satisfied with your life...
because you think you are living as a good man.
- However, it's a selfish behavior. - That's right.
I hope you would look back on yourself.
Do you think it's a worry or not?
- I don't think it's a worry. - No?
- You spoke on Joo Chan's behalf. - It's a worry.
Put yourself in Joo Chan's shoes.
Then it's a worry.
Of course the boss doesn't think it's a worry.
- It's a big worry for the employee. - That's right.
Dong Geun.
It's a big worry.
- You think it's a worry. - Yes.
I also think it's a big worry.
I also think it's a worry.
I have lent a lot of money in the past to someone too.
When a friend said, "I figured you would have a lot of money,"
I lent money...
because I thought it made me look cool.
But at this point,
- those friends aren't by my side. - No, they aren't.
I hope you would fix your ways.
Please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- One. - Stop.
Thank you for working with me so far.
You are more like a friend than an employee.
Don't worry.
I will make it big.
This is driving me crazy.
Please call the production crew when you make it big.
After I pay off my debt,
I will stop lending money.
- Will you stop lending money? - Are you serious?
Will you do that even if you make it big?
(Thank goodness.)
Thank goodness.
After I pay off my debt, I will have more money.
Then I will treat you better.
Let's work hard together.
- Be firm. - Shall we see the result?
"The Fish That's Already Caught" is leading with 156 votes.
Show us the result for "The Man Who Borrows Trouble".
I am curious.
- It got over 100 votes. - 161 votes?
(What will be the result?)
(161 votes)
- My goodness. - That's how serious the problem is.
The title is "What Do You Think of Me?"
Hello, I am Kim Young Ho,
a 31-year-old man from Gyeongsang Province.
Gyeongsang Province.
Despite the hot weather, summer feels cold to me.
It's because my heart...
feels extremely cold.
"It's Friday night. Let's go for drinks."
"I have a date. I am sorry."
"Let's meet this weekend."
"I am accompanying my wife to see her mom."
"Let's meet some other time."
My friends either have a girlfriend or a wife.
I am the only one who is single.
For 10 years,
I haven't even come close to a relationship.
He has been single for a while.
"Why can't I find a girlfriend? I have no idea."
"Look at yourself."
"It must be because you are short."
"His height isn't the problem. His hairstyle is."
That's right. I am 158cm tall.
I shaved my head because I kept losing hair.
Do those factors matter that much?
I have a friendly face, a nice job,
and a heart that is as big as the Pacific Ocean.
What is the problem?
Please help me find a girlfriend...
this year.
(Please help me find a girlfriend.)
What matters the most when you look for a lover?
- I am sure many things matter. - That's right.
- Hyun Joo. - What matters the most?
- To be honest, looks matter. - That's right.
- But other things matter as well. - That's right.
However, you see the looks of someone first.
I have to like the man's looks...
to develop feelings for him.
What is your type?
It's not you.
(It's not Sung Gwang.)
- I like someone who is manly. - A manly guy.
A manly man.
You like someone who is manly.
Before you got married, what did you look for in a man?
Before I got married,
I cared a lot about the looks. I thought my husband was...
far from being my ideal type.
I only saw him as Kim Nam Il.
Then he said, "Hello." He had a beautiful voice.
It's an occupational habit. I like men with nice voices.
Is that so?
A man's voice matters.
- That's right. - In any case,
let's invite him to the stage.
Please come on out.
(Who is worried about being single?)
(Thumbs up)
- He is cute. - He's cute.
He is cute.
(Welcome.)
You haven't felt any butterflies in your stomach...
from sharing feelings with a woman...
- for 10 years, right? - Right.
Did you have a girlfriend before that?
Or were you always single?
I wasn't always single.
About 10 years ago, through a friend...
I dated someone for six months.
- I see. - I didn't know...
that relationship would be my first and last.
If the relationship lasted for six months,
I am sure you were physically intimate with her.
It's as you think.
That's intense.
You don't know what he is thinking.
Do you know what I am thinking?
Why do you look so happy?
Why do you think you haven't found a girlfriend yet?
I am short. About 4 or 5 years ago,
I shaved my head because I started losing hair.
I don't have the best looks.
You might have a pretty head.
- Can we take a look? - Please take off your hat.
(Curious)
- Can we take a look? - Please take off your hat.
(Clean-shaven)
It suits you.
(He is confident.)
My goodness.
You should have been able to find someone.
I find it hard to believe you have only dated once.
- I know. - He is confident.
I asked my friends to set me up on a blind date...
and took initiative when I liked someone too.
However, women always turn me down.
I tried to play hot and cold.
- You tried to play hot and cold. - Yes.
I restrained myself and waited 3 or 4 days...
before I texted a woman, but she didn't reply.
She wasn't interested.
When you played cold, she just left.
You went too far.
(Let me wipe my tears for a second.)
Why do you think you broke up with your last girlfriend...
after six months of dating?
We grew apart when my girlfriend moved...
- for a new job. - It happened naturally.
I guess she got a new job on purpose.
(Joking)
(He needs to find someone.)
When you meet people for various activities,
you will get your chances.
Don't you like that?
I like it,
but I never get a chance.
What are your hobbies?
- I like to hike. - That's good.
I started to learn jiu jitsu.
- Jiu jitsu. - Not many women learn it.
- That's right. - You mostly do things...
women don't like.
What does your mom say?
My dad asked me, "Aren't you going to get married?"
My friends said they should work on a...
"Help Young Ho Get Married" project.
Let's learn more about him.
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
Do you have a wife or a girlfriend?
I have been married for eight months now.
- You're newlyweds. - Yes.
How about the next friend?
It's been three months since I broke up.
Why did you bring a friend who broke up?
(One's already enough, but there's also a friend.)
It's probably hard enough to get himself together.
It's been about a year and a half.
- With your girlfriend? - Since we broke up.
(No, since we broke up.)
- They're friends for life. - All your friends are depressing.
He's no help.
(Thanks, buddies.)
You could set them up with your girlfriends.
I get texts every other day.
"Set me a blind date."
When I tell them I'm drinking, they ask me if there's a girl.
They go on my social media account,
and if they find a girl they like, they ask me to set them up.
I wanted him to do well with that girl,
so I decided to have drink with them.
But he was so nervous...
that he drank so much in the first round.
We went to a karaoke with him drunk.
The girl asked him to sing with her and sing for her.
It was going well.
- Good. - Right.
Then suddenly,
he started singing "1234" and "Busan Seagull"...
that were trending at that time.
- What? - He started singing trot songs.
It was popular at the time? When was "Busan Seagull" popular?
He asked her to sing with him?
He suddenly started singing "Busan Seagull",
but he was so drunk...
that he couldn't sing properly.
That's right.
(Dramatization master)
(Laughing)
The thing is...
he sang the same song four times.
(He sang the same song 4 times.)
So the girl was forced to go home.
- Sing it now. - Let's hear it.
- "Busan Seagull". - Sing it now.
Do you sing that song all the time?
It's attractive if you sing well.
Just a little bit. Relax.
(Dear friend)
(Raise a glass high)
(For our friendship)
(People are embarrassed.)
(Let's toast to that)
I'll stop here.
That's what you sang with the girl?
(That's new.)
He likes songs that people in their 50s like.
(It shows that he's like people in their 50s.)
Do women think he's old-fashioned?
Yes. He's pretty old-fashioned.
After my wedding, we had an after party.
People sometimes find their love in those places.
- Yes. - Right.
He wore white dress shirt with large collars,
with black suit and black dress shoes.
- That was all right. - Okay.
He unbuttoned his shirt and wore a gold necklace.
(Unbuttoned shirt with a gold necklace)
- He's bald. - And...
- the ring he's wearing right now. - The gold ring.
That's how he dressed up. He usually dresses like that.
(Like this.)
That's huge.
- The Marine ring. - It's old-fashioned.
Also, his mustache.
Women don't like mustache.
That's...
The staff told me today.
He insisted on wearing a gold necklace.
If he wears a necklace,
- It makes sounds. - it makes irritating sounds.
So we asked him to remove it.
He had a hard time taking the gold necklace off.
(He hated taking it off.)
Recently, he wore overalls.
Overalls with a gold necklace?
I think he did.
What's that belly?
(He looks like a wealthy Chinese man for a second.)
He looks like a wealthy Chinese man.
(He doesn't know where to look.)
His style...
is not consistent.
A gold necklace and a gold ring are fine.
The white t-shirt is fine too.
But you need a fit body with it and some tattoos.
If you want to look wealthy, wear shorts and a jacket,
but then you also need money.
- His style... - He's right.
(In short, his style doesn't match.)
It's important to see what women think of his style.
I think he's very unique.
(That means she doesn't like him.)
That means she doesn't like him.
You need to watch him for a long time to know him well.
(He's cute if you look closely for a long time.)
You also need to have a lot of conversation with him.
People like us...
should be concerned with what we wear.
I think he did.
(He's all dressed up.)
Not in that way.
But in a way that women like.
Do you admit what your friends say about you?
What do you think of your own style?
Nowadays,
I try to dress up like celebrities on TV.
- Who? - Who did you copy?
There's no particular person.
Whose mustache did you copy?
I didn't copy anyone.
Italian guys are known...
as the most romantic guys in the world.
They ask out women...
most confidently.
Tell us some of the manners or things that you care about.
Things that Italian guys always follow.
(We want to know...)
(desperately.)
Let's say there are two restaurants.
- One has a long line up. - A long line.
The other restaurant's owner is shouting,
"Come. We're delicious. We give discounts."
Where would you go?
I don't know. He's suddenly asking us a question.
- I'd go to where... - I'd go to the one with a line up.
- The one with the line? - Yes.
That's it.
When you meet a woman,
as if there is a line up outside,
- you need to have the attitude... - Relaxed attitude.
of that restaurant.
Believe that you're the good restaurant.
You don't need to brag about yourself on a blind date.
You're not the main cast.
The other person is the main cast.
As long as you remember these two things...
(Okay, I got it.)
What do you want him to fix?
What do you think his problem is?
On his social media, he posts pictures of him...
with thumbs up while hiking.
"Thumbs up."
(He had thumbs up when he appeared.)
Even in his hashtag, he says,
"I could only stay for a short term because the mountain allowed me."
He'd write something like that.
(This is the proof.)
That's pretty intense.
(What a showoff.)
(He likes thumbs up like an old man.)
(The mountain allowed me again today. Thank you, Mount Sobaek.)
(Cheesy)
He doesn't look like a man in early 30s.
I think his writing is a bigger problem than the picture.
You can't really do anything about his look,
but what he wrote...
There's nothing you can do.
Photos and thumbs up...
are similar to celebrities' punchlines.
It's my own pose and style.
I'm saying that's too old.
It's consistent.
- That's right. - It's his trademark.
So what you want is,
"The thumbs-up guy posted a picture again. Did you see it?"
"Thumbs-up guy. Thumbs-up guy. Thumbs-up guy."
That's what you want.
Let's test if he's really old.
Let's see where you belong to.
What's the first lyrics that comes to your mind...
after "From head to toe"?
"Lovely".
- "Hot Issue". - "Hot Issue".
From head to toe
(It's a song from a commercial.)
"Lovely" is for 30s.
"Hot Issue" is for 20s.
The commercial song is for teenagers.
Which group comes to your mind when you think Yuri?
(Yuri of Girls Generation, Sung Yuri of Fin.K.L, Yuri of Cool)
Cool.
(Yuri from 1995)
- It's Girls Generation. - Isn't it Girls Generation?
- There's Girls Generation. - Right.
- You know abbreviations? - Abbreviations.
- A "rib". - What's "rib"?
- I don't know. - A "rib".
The more you know him, the more you dislike him.
(Alberto passes everything.)
He's the current generation.
"SML".
(What does SML mean?)
I don't know, but can I tell you my thought?
- Is that appropriate for the show? - I don't think so.
Don't say it.
Don't say it unless it's appropriate for the show.
Whisper in his ear.
(He's curious to hear it.)
(Very ugly person)
He regrets hearing it.
(He regrets hearing it.)
I know the first word.
It's inappropriate from the first word.
"So much love".
- "So much love". - "So much love".
Do you know what food service language is?
"Dongui"...
- It means I agree. - Bogam.
(Donguibogam)
When I said "dongui", he said he agrees.
(When I said "dongui", he said he agrees.)
(Scratching)
He has a problem with his communication skills.
- Communication skill? - Yes.
He only talks about things that he's interested in,
such as hiking and sports.
On Saturdays, he pressures people to go hiking with him on Sunday.
That's his problem.
When there's a woman...
and if things are going well,
he suddenly puts on a show like he doesn't know where he is.
- Alone? - What do you mean by that?
I'm kind of shy to show you.
- Show me. - Pretend you're there.
(Drunk man)
I'd go like "Where am I?"
(Where am I?)
Something like this.
That's cute.
- That's cute. - That's cute.
That's what men like.
- That's what men like. - Right.
Women don't know how to react to it.
Women like funny guys.
- We do. - But...
It's not about the joke. It's about the situation.
You need to build up the relationship first.
- Listen to what they say, - Right.
- and say something about it. - That's right.
That's the answer.
Does your husband have a sense of humor, Bo Min?
He's blunt, but he sometimes makes jokes.
I often text him asking whether he loves me or not.
I ask him sometimes.
Then he says, "Yes."
When I say it's too short, he makes the answer longer.
It might seem like nothing,
- but it's cute, and I'm grateful. - It's cute.
- It's the same context. - Yes.
What type of woman do you like? Be specific.
If I say it...
- Go ahead. - It's fine.
- Who is it? - Sandara Park.
(Sighing)
- Sandara? - Sandara Park.
She's very attractive.
Well... So...
- What are you trying to say? - After he mentioned Sandara Park,
we can't seem to continue the talk.
(It ruined the mood at once.)
Hyun Joo, this might be too much to ask,
- but think that it's a blind date. - A role play?
- Yes, it's a role play. - I'd like that.
(The blind date simulation)
Try to feel comfortable. Think this is a blind date.
Just be yourself. Your friends are watching you.
(We met each other on a blind date.)
- Greet each other. - Hello.
Hello.
I... I'm Kim Young Ho.
- I'm Lee Hyun Joo. - I see.
What is your hobby?
- Pardon? Oh, my hobby? - Your hobby.
I like going to nice restaurants.
Do you like climbing mountains?
- Climbing mountains? - Yes.
- He's out of his mind. - I don't really like it...
It's a bit too hard for me. Do you like climbing mountains?
Yes, I like climbing mountains.
I also like taking pictures on the top of the mountain.
I'm planning to go to a mountain once a week.
- Every weekend? - Yes.
Change the subject.
- Ask what she likes. - Ask about her.
What... What is your hobby?
You asked that before. You asked that before!
- Why did you ask the same question? - Ask about her favorite food.
Her favorite food.
What is your favorite food?
- I like meat. - I see.
My goodness.
He doesn't seem charming at all.
(Why can't you lead the conversation?)
- Let's see how Alberto would do. - Okay.
Alberto is always...
Hyun Joo, this is my friend Alberto.
- Hello. - Alberto, this is Hyun Joo.
- It's nice to meet you. - You too.
This is your first time here, right?
(Alberto got on his knees.)
That's nice. He got on his knees.
- Yes. - I should get on my knees?
(He shows unusual skill from the start.)
- He got on his knees. - Right.
Do you come here often?
- No. This is my first time here. - Really?
- This is actually my favorite cafe. - I see.
It's an ordinary cafe, but today, it looks special.
(Weirdly, it looks special today.)
- He sounds natural somehow. - I don't know why.
(It's because of you.)
I like this cafe too.
"It's an ordinary cafe, but today, it looks special."
This is exact my point. Women can sense things like this.
(The date with the guest and Alberto)
(She looks so different.)
Exactly. He was supposed to act naturally...
just like Alberto did, but as soon as he came,
he said, "Hello. What's your hobby?"
- That's why... - My goodness.
He looked like some kind of hobby researcher.
Alberto, thank you. You did a great job.
- Was it okay? - It was great.
- Hyun Joo, thank you. - Oh, my. They left the cake.
- They left their cake here. - My goodness.
I realized something. I think the facial expression is important.
He seemed to avoid eye contact.
- He seemed nervous. - That's right.
How should I put it? He seemed a little stiff.
- He was nervous... - It made the mood awkward.
- because he avoided eye contact. - Yes.
Men can be a better judge of other men.
As you've known him for a long time, you must know...
- good things about him. - Right.
He has his own house and car, is good at cooking,
and has a cheerful personality.
- What do you do for a living? - I...
I'm working with my father.
Are you going to inherit your father's business?
- Are you? - Well, yes, I'm planning to do so.
That's great. Don't say anything else.
- He's going to inherit... - That's great.
his father's business.
- Are you an eldest child? - Yes.
- He'll inherit the business. - Do you have younger siblings?
I have a younger sister.
(Well...)
That's so funny.
All right. That's enough.
I just asked about his family out of curiosity.
Did you prepare anything for your marriage?
I... I bought an apartment.
(That's good. Say no more!)
(It's hilarious.)
He's so diligent. He owns an apartment at the age of 31.
But his ideal type is Sandara Park.
- He just picked someone... - He has everything.
because we asked him to.
I'm not sure if I should say this to a man,
- but he has such pretty eyes. - He's right.
- That's right. - His eyes are pretty.
- He has brown eyes. - They are so pretty.
Don't avoid eye contact when you're with a woman.
- Your eyes are so charming. - She's right.
This is a secret vote, so if you are single,
and you would like to go out with him,
or you think he could be a good match for you,
please press the buzzer.
(What could be...)
(the result?)
Please press the buzzer.
(The number is going up.)
- It's going up. - My goodness.
(Unbelievable)
There's more.
(Surprised)
All right. That's enough.
- See? I knew it. - 40 women said yes.
(The audience applauds automatically.)
This is what life is like.
You know there's someone who likes you somewhere,
- But it's hard to find. - but you can't meet her.
She's like a unicorn.
- She's hiding herself from you. - Like a unicorn.
- She's avoiding you. - There's someone who likes you.
If you keep trying, I'm sure you will...
meet your unicorn in the woods someday.
- Right. - Yes.
Please tell the single women who are watching this show...
about yourself for the last time.
When I'm in love with someone,
I give her everything I have.
I think of no one else.
So please call me if you're watching this.
(Manly)
(You can make an inquiry on our website.)
Sung Gwang, you go first.
- I don't think it's a worry. - I see.
I think it's a worry.
- I think it's a worry too. - I see.
I don't think it's a worry.
I think he'll find someone right after this show airs.
If you end up well with someone, I'll host your wedding.
(Bo Min promised to host his wedding.)
I don't think it's a worry.
(I'm glad I came on the show.)
If you think it's a worry, please press the buzzer.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
I wonder how many votes he got. Please show us the result.
The last digit...
Could it be over 100 votes?
- I don't think it'll be over 100. - You think?
83 votes.
(83 votes)
"The Man Who Borrows Trouble" is this week's winner.
("The Man Who Borrows Trouble" wins.)
The winner will receive prize money. Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you! - Thank you!
("Semina" by Gugudan SEMINA)